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What Is It That Makes Somebody Love You?

By Jason Craige

 

What is it that makes somebody love you?

I have often wondered what it is that makes one person love another person even if it’s not reciprocated. Many of us are in what we call loveless relationships as well often only staying because the sex is good or for the children or out of fear there are a myriad of excuses.

Although some people believe adamantly in hormones others call it chemistry some people even start their relationship as friends and “fall” in love, which always sounds strange to me because falling is often associated with a rather fast stop. It’s not the fall that will hurt you but the thud when you stop. Having experienced many different types of love I believe that if someone truly loves you they are your companion and it’s that companionship that lasts because they want to be with you not because of love but in spite of it. Love may come and go out of your relationship but if they are your companion they will stick by you like glue.

For many of us simply by trusting and communicating openly and honestly we foster love regardless of whom we are love comes about by being truly open and honest with all the things that are important to us as beings. By communicating we are encouraging love and it grows between is as beings by simply being true to ourselves and each other. Truth is often hard because we don’t always trust people with our feelings, we feel that in some way the person will try and use those sacred truths against us at a later stage, but I believe that you have to give fully of yourself before you will get that trust returned.

I often hear people in relationships talk about the fact that they are so in love but I have observed that when something like a financial issue arises they can very quickly fall out of love with each other. Finances are one of the main reason people apparently break up, I would say that its lack of open and honest communication that’s the problem, too many people want to play the blame game when it comes to communication and love. In my opinion you should always feel free to talk about your feelings, unfortunately there are some very destructive relationships in which you can never say a word often because of fear of abuse either verbal physical or psychological.

So when it comes to love always remember that open honest communication and listening without prejudice are so important .You must always be true to yourself and never hide from you feelings they are yours you own them so you should deal with them by talking ,listening and trusting .

Falling in love won’t hurt but the thud when you hit the reality of life’s sidewalk will .When you hit it from a great height, wouldn’t it be better to trust someone enough to catch you.

 

Author Biography - Provided by the Author

Jason Craige is a staff writer for The Love Shop you can visit this site at http://www.theloveshop.com the Love shop specialises in helping people find love as well as exciting clothes and products to enhance your relationship.