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Career Change - Making the Big Leap
By David Bonham-Carter
Often people contemplate a change of career with some trepidation, holding fears such as:
- Will I be able to achieve what I am aiming for?
- What if I don’t earn enough money?
- Will I regret my decision?
One common tool for helping you to decide whether you are right in wanting to change jobs is for you to draw up a list of costs and benefits of making the decision to make a big leap into a new career.
Whilst this approach is useful, it is unlikely to resolve the fears or anxieties you have about making the big leap...
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Getting Rid of Negative Thoughts
By David Bonham-Carter
Do you ever find yourself using words such as "should" or "must" to describe how you wish you had acted or want to act?
If so, you are probably using up a
lot of emotional energy and may well be focusing in a negative rather
than a constructive way on a particular situation. We all do this at
times, so try not to be too critical of yourself if you have this tendency, but why not see if you can
begin to change?
Negative thinking can hold you back from achieving what you want or can lead you to be over self critical or too judgemental about yourself. this article focuses on dealing with negative self critical thoughts. The general life coaching approach that is described is similar to that adopted in cognitive behavioural stress therapy treatment, which can be very effective in helping people to overcome or deal with anxiety disorders, low self esteem or pressurising and stressful thoughts.
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Dealing with Problem Habits - Tips for Life Coaches
By David Bonham-Carter
This article looks at a model of how people make changes proposed by the psychologists James Prochaska and Carlo DiClemente and how it can be used by life coaches as a framework for structuring coaching intervention, particularly in situations where a client is seeking to break away from a habitual form of behaviour which is creating repeated problems for them.
Prochaska and Carlo DiClemente’s model of how people make changes has been applied to working with a range of habitual problems, including:
- Smoking or misuse of alcohol
- Difficulties in relationships where there are repeating patterns
- Lack of assertiveness
- A tendency to procrastinate
- Situations where a person repeatedly jumps to erroneous assumptions or interpretations of events...
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Working from Home - What are the Pitfalls?
By David Bonham-Carter
The rapid pace of developments in communications technology in recent decades and changing attitudes about work roles mean that for many the option of working from home instead of in a traditional office environment is suddenly becoming a reality rather than just a dream. Flexibility is perhaps the cornerstone of the approach with research suggesting that some employers are now allowing or encouraging a mixed approach to where and how their staff work, with their employees being given the opportunity to use a combination of office working, home working and remote working to meet the requirements of their job.
This article looks at some of the benefits of working from home then considers some of the pitfalls, particularly where you have a family that may be affected by your working from home...
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